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Roberto Lupi's avatar

Great start. I think you are overlooking a fact in your approach. I hope my words may help you.

If you take away the practice of retrospectives, thinking about your past (be it just your day or week) and evaluate, you remove the practice of a key feedback loop and introduce a delay. While it is true that our judgement is temperamental and fleeting, always mutating and not stable, our emotions are tied to it by biology. Trying to take this away in search of objectivity will make the swings more pronounced, not less.

I think you'll create better results if you both include the feedback loop over months from your approach, and the self-reporting. Without both, it is harder to see how our body and mind are often mere flags agitating in the strong winds of circumstances. Becoming aware of the changing nature of everything, including our own thoughts, is the path to seeing that we are not our body nor we are our minds. These are changing phenomena that we can leave in the past, start anew leaving the past conditioning aside. Training this insights is, in my humble opinion, the path to healing and a little wisdom that is helpful in life.

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